Obedience, Bullshit, & Saving Earth!
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The gift I give to my beloved elders is to let them know that they are 100% recognized and qualified TO GET UP TO MISCHIEF! I remember my teacher Rockman kicking my ass (verbally) once when I called him "Old Man" and he told me that inside people don't get old. I was 19 at the time in Eugene, Oregon, we were in some store and he pointed out some elderly blue-haired American lady and said to me, "You think that she is old but in her heart of hearts she is still a smokin' 18 year old and her body is betraying her to make you think that she is anything but that. She is still sexy, playful, curious and full of delight but you are prepared to treat her as if she was made for something different than what you yearn for and delight in."
Rockman was someone you didn't trifle with and when he laid it on the line I knew I'd get at least a face full of Rockman if I crossed it. It was a lesson that opened up a new appreciation for this dawn to dusk, dusk to dawn journey for me and now, with the shiny Tooth of Time already making itself known experientially within me, I know that I too am still that young 19 year old hunting for medicine, but if you saw me maybe you'd think something different - HAHAHAHAHAHA!
Friday night I went over to my friend Papa Teto's house to celebrate his 83rd birthday. His wrinkled face beautiful with the prominent lines of his Guatemalan Mayan ancestry, Papa Teto is always up for mischief and always gives me toys when I visit him. I remember when we first got to know each other he gave me a fairly good-sized plastic white horse with long fiber mane and tail. It was my birthday but he often gives me little plastic horses , pigs, sheep and other things. At first I resisted it. Generally I don't like accumulating things. I'm happiest with less. But these toys opened up a doorway to an innocence within that had been walled off for years. Papa Teto is a medicine for our childishness, for our beautiful, creative, luminous mischief makers. He painted all of his daughter's saints out in her garden blue and makes beautiful, garish belt buckles and bracelets out of plastic horses cut in two and will offer them to you and you may not know how to receive something garish and raw. But every time I have a party with my finely-heeled, elegant friends, I always invite Papa Teto (Don Perfecto) to my parties and he is the perfect gentleman, always attentive to the beauties in the room; and the older and more wrinkled the more beautiful and ripe for his gentle flourishes of consummate and discrete attentions.
So I remember my child-like, open, willing-to-love, connect and play heart. And when I see my elders, aside from paying close attention to their wisdom, I let them know that I recognize them beyond the years - and let them know that I, too, am ready to play with them and that they are welcome.
And this is something that is sometimes sad for me in many parts of the U.S. that I have lived because the parties don't have many old people. I grew up with many old people in Belgium and their seasoned, musty succulence was a tremendous delight for me in my childhood. You go to parties here and the gringos "put away" the kids and the elders, as if children and elders weren't capable of having a wild time until 2 or 3 in the morning. No kids, no elders: for me that's no party.
My children and elder friends get invited to my parties FIRST! and their mischief, too, is invited and delighted in.